- Peer support groups provide individuals with a safe space to share experiences, address challenges, and receive encouragement from others who have faced similar situations (e.g., addiction, depression, diabetes, grief, etc.). However, chance encounters with fellow group members outside of the support setting can sometimes lead to uncertainty or discomfort. Many members may not be sure how to interact appropriately in these situations.
As a best practice, most group facilitators work with members to establish clear guidelines that help minimize potential discomfort.
If your group does not currently have such guidelines, here are four tips for engaging respectfully and effectively with your peers outside the group:
- Respect personal boundaries.
If you happen to see a fellow group member outside the group, allow them to acknowledge you first before initiating conversation. This gives them control over whether they wish to interact in that setting. - Maintain confidentiality.
What is shared in the group stays in the group. Even if your peer acknowledges you, avoid bringing up topics discussed during group sessions unless you have their explicit permission. - Accept differing comfort levels.
Not everyone will want to form friendships outside the group setting—and that’s okay. Try not to take it personally if a peer prefers to keep your relationship within the structure of the group. People have different reasons for maintaining boundaries. - Set clear boundaries for outside friendships.
It’s perfectly fine to build friendships with group members outside the group. However, it’s important to clearly distinguish between the purpose of the peer support group and your personal relationship. Without these boundaries, the friendship can unintentionally become a substitute for—or an extension of—the peer support experience.
- Respect personal boundaries.
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